Less is More, except, when More is More

Dear Muse: I love your blog so far. With summer quickly approaching, which means the amount of exposed flesh will soon be on the rise, what is your opinion in regards to classy cleavage vs. trashy cleavage?

A. As a well-endowed female myself, I've spent a lot of years addressing this issue much to my father's raised eyebrows. And after much trial and error, I've come to a few opinions on the way.

Sadly, for those of us with cleavage in practically everything, we must come to grips and admit that the stunning attire of Kate Hudson in How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days is just not going to fly.

So my opinion is this: at the office, NO cleavage EVER. It is too much of a distraction to everyone around. However, on those summer nights out with friends -- show off your best assets, no matter what those assets might be -- but keep the rest demure like Scarlett Johansson instead you'll look like Pam Anderson.

Business Casual is Still Business!

Dear Style Muse, I just started a new job at a large company. The dress code is business casual, but on the more conservative/dressy side of the spectrum. I have my fair share of slacks, button down shirts and cardigans, but I wanted to see if you have any other ideas for work staples to look out for, or particular stores to visit, when I go spring shopping. Any advice you might have would be appreciated! Yours truly, D.C.

A. Oh have I struggled with this concept! You want to be respected, but you want to be comfortable. It sounds like you are on the right track in your wardrobe. The good news about business casual is that it allows for a bit of creativity, by pairing something more conservative with a few bold choices. For example, a fun dress belted and paired with a blazer and heels will take you from the office to drinks. Blazers also work well with jeans (not torn jeans but a tailored pair in dark hue). The easiest fail-safe advice on the business-casual front I can give anyone is to keep a client/meeting appropriate outfit at your office in case of emergencies.

As far as stores to look at -- it sounds like you are frequenting J. Crew, Banana Republic etc. --I'd add in some cheaper trendier counterpoints for layering with the basics: Zara and H&M as well as Nordstrom and other Dept. stores during their bi-annual sales.

As a last note, I think this is a good place to point out that nude-pantyhose are always a NO! When you can get away with it, go bare, and when you can't, match your stockings to your shoes.

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